Graduation Celebration – The Big Easy
Sundance, my brother (formerly known as James
O’Connell Morgan Jr.), started his college career at Georgetown University in
1962. He has always exemplified the word “potential”. He was, at the same time, a victim of high
expectations (peers, parental, and anyone who knew him). I recall my older
brother being coddled after he broke his collar bone as the Junior Varsity
Quarterback at Saint Ignatius. I kid him to this day about that time when he was sipping a beverage from a bendy stray on a makeshift recovery bed set up in
front of his very own TV set in the living room as the boy QB prince of
Edgewater Drive.
His journey included two suspensions from Jesuit
Georgetown, a study abroad (that yielded no academic credit), and a stint as a
football teammate at the University of San Francisco (another Jesuit school). He also served in the Navy. (Upon discharge he postponed his academic pursuits in favor of
stints in flooring sales, restaurant wait staff, and hotel hospitality work. He landed in
Miami and eventually New Orleans.) Fast forward five decades and Sundance
becomes a fixture at City Park as a tennis instructor. One of his students (Dawn) convinced him to explore dramatic arts at Delgado CC for which he would earn an associate’s
degree. Now eligible for some government assistance our hero matriculated to
the University of New Orleans and applied his newly refreshed academic
discipline to earning a Bachelor’s Degree in Inter-disciplinary Studies in
2021.
This is cause for celebration. Morgan siblings descend
on the Big Easy from Tampa (Greg), Cleveland (Dan), Novato, California
(Rob), Columbus, Ohio (Lynn), and Saint Louis (Wes). Sundance donned a
graduation cap as we gathered at the Five Guys Restaurant near his house in Mid
City NOLA. This family gathering swelled to nine with the addition of Lynn’s
granddaughter Colleen and Greg’s boys Wes (the Lesser) and Matt. Greg is in
charge of logistics as Uber shuttle between two hotels and the restaurant.
At the restaurant, the Morgan party draws straws for
original sketches by our father dating back to 1940s WWII era (framed by Rob);
open envelopes of random photos selected for each of the siblings (assembled by
Wes); nosh on burgers and fries served up by Greg. (He catered to our table and
picked up the check as well.) Sundance presented each of his siblings with a
custom money clip as a token of appreciation. Yesterday, a sibling gift pack
(from Dan) and a round of "Happy Birthday to you" could be heard from the hotel
suite occupied by Dan, Lynn and the 12-year old Colleen. Wes (The Lesser) and
Matt took turns focusing smart phone cameras for the obligatory over
documentation of the event.
Part II of the celebration is hosted by Bernie in her
fabulous mid-century home where the evening includes wine, beer and a buffet
style spread in the kitchen. It is here we begin to get a sense of the impact
of Sundance on the community he has built over 20+ years in New Orleans. A
prominent banner (Congratulations Sundance) is pool-side along white tablecloth
rounds of four. Toasts are offered over champagne leading to a hearty rendition
of “for he’s a jolly good fellow, nobody can deny”.
The world revolves around Sundance on this day.
However, sports fans from Tampa (Greg and his boys) along with Wes and Rob camp
out in front of big screens for 3 ½ hours of Stanley Cub playoff hockey between
the Tampa Bay Lightning and the Florida Panthers (At Manning’s Sports Bar and
Grill on Fulton Street). The series is not conclusive on Thursday Night (at two
games to one) after the Panthers prevail avoiding elimination. Meanwhile Lynn
and Dan with Colleen in tow show up just as we are departing Archie Manning’s
restaurant. Rob has sponsored rounds of servings of nachos, poppers, catfish
sticks, fried shrimp bits, topped off with a round of beignets (which he claims totaled under an expected price tag in the range of a night out with his wife
Joy on a California date night). Dan, Lynn and Colleen still need to be fed. Greg saves
the day again with a local pizza delivered to the Aster Crown Plaza Hotel on
Canal Street in the French Quarter.
Friday Night Rob insists on viewing Golden State
Warriors vs. Memphis Grizzlies “play-in” game. This contest ends in
disappointment for Rob into the evening hours. The 117-112 Memphis overtime
victory doesn’t count for stats because of the Covid-19 truncated season. Rob,
Greg and his boys are just loud enough in the adjoining room for Wes to know
that the Golden State team is finished for the season. He goes back to sleep
because Uber Greg is the shuttle ride to MSY (Louis Armstrong Airport) early on
Saturday morning so Wes and Rob can exit the Big Easy for California and
Missouri.