Friday, July 17, 2026

To all the girls

 








To all the girls I've loved before

Who traveled in and out my door

I'm glad they came along

I dedicate this song

To all the girls I've loved before


Lynn Stevens - my wife of 41+ years and the mother of my two amazing kids (Lindsey and Ben) and grandmother to Lawton and James (both born in 2016). Lynn - you've been gone since February 3, 2022 but I gotta believe you are smiling.




Janie Blades - my high school prom date in 1974

Denise de Ville - I was her high school prom date in 1975

Linda - in 1968 complex at the U 1975

Linda Manzi - Mahoney Hall college mate's sister from Long Island 1975

Jill Nussinow - Mahoney Hall kid with the priviledge of having a single room. She lives in California now and is a veggie queen (Nutrician nut). Drimer caller her "skitzy Jill" 1975

Jill Nista - NJ girl at the U 1976

Amy Friedman - The UM Rathskeller 1976

Sharon Silver - Remote campus drop in. U faculty kid. 1976

Jolie - French name. Met on solo drive to Key West. Offered me acid. No thanks - on the acid.... 1976

Arlyn Young - Shipbottom, NJ fan - now Harvey Cedars, NJ  - lived with biker guy in CT (former husband). Recruiter for accounting people. Weaver at UM. 1975-76

Teri Sullivan - Northbrook, IL (Chicago). 22 cans of Tuna fish for my birthday. 1977

Amy Wain - Ibis 1977-78 copy editor. Amy Wain from Key Biscayne.

Jane Sn (not sure of spelling) - Had her own house, dog and my mom liked her when I brought her to Key Biscayne Harbor Lane. 1979

Andrea Matoon - Newton, MA (the Wasp). "The Plough and the Stars" and Friendly's breakfast. Great skate at Winterhurst (HS).

Linda Decker - Michigan - Deer Hunter Movie. Water ski/lake.

Ali Mc Graw 1970,  Greta Garbo 1933, Ruby Keeler 1936, Myrna Loy 1935


































Significant Others and the Sweet Sixteen

Soupy McGorray was my fourth grade girlfriend. St. Luke (grade school – grades 1-8), Johnny McDonnell convinced me that the way to go was to give her an ID bracelet. My sister helped me acquire such a piece of jewelry with block letters that read clearly WES. I even saw her once when challenged at the frozen ice skating rink at Lakewood Park, I kid about our age (probably a classmate) asked her point blank “Do you like him?” She sort of sheepishly nodded and said “Yeah”. I’m not sure exactly what caused her to reconsider that commitment but I remember when she returned the ID bracelet. It was, I think at the corner of Lake Avenue and Mannor Park. Debbie Strauss was Soupy’s friend and wrote a note assuring me that “Soup still likes you but…” (I wish I still had that note. I don’t remember the rest of the diplomatic language in it.) Hang on Sloopy was her official song before Ohio State University adopted it as a sort of fight song.

Carol Weist was a St. Luke classmate was sort of my sixth grade girlfriend. I only remember that she was part of a blended family with something like 17 siblings. I remember her sort of smiling as we heard Bob Dylan on the car radio “Lay Lady Lay”

Sheila Hart’s family moved into St. Luke parish and as a result Danny Caine said that “She was a game changer.” My mom even noticed her in church as a pretty little girl whose long hair made it difficult for her to see her face. I was smitten and promised her my high school ring. (We were in 8th grade and I had no idea when I would have a high school ring from Lakewood High). Sheila went to St, Augustine High School and I kind of lost track of her.

Denise de Ville lived just a few blocks from the house I grew up in.  We became friends. Her parents liked me and Denise was was always willing (even on short notice) to be my date for a play (my mom was involved in community theater and as such she would periodically make a show available to me an a date), Denise was a year behind me at Lakewood High School. She asked me to her High School Prom in 1975. I was able to fit into a break from my Freshman Year at the University of Miami.

Janie Likavec was my choice for my Senior Prom in 1974.

SWEET SIXTEEN (in no particular order) 

Linda Manzi 74-75 – Visiting her brother at UM. Moved to Miami and worked at Lums

Linda Decker (Pontiac, MI) 80 – Went to the movie The Deer Hunter *

Linda (1968 complex) 75* Maybe after a Rathkeller happy hour

Lynn 79 (80-2022) Babaco hats and showing up at Bagel Emporium.

Denise de Ville 75*

Janie Likavec 74 Found her way to U Miami (as did Rise Moser)

Janie Sn 79 – dog, Wes (ex), Cerebral Palsy

Arlyn Young 77 – weaver, recruiter of accountants, motorcycle bf, Ship Bottom, NJ, David Clayton Thomas, Association, Chubby Checker

Jill Nussinow 76

Jill Nista 76 – moved to NNJ

Amy Friedman 76 – said gorgeous

Amy Wain 77-78 Key Biscayne

Sharon Silver 78  - dad was UM factulty or something

Jolie (Key West – offered me acid) 78 *

Teri Sullivan 77-78 tuna fish cans for my bday (22 or 23)

Andrea Mattoon 79-80 – Plough and the Stars